Top 5 Insecurities of Black Women & Ways to Eliminate Them

The term “insecurity” isn't a term that's unfamiliar to the Black woman. Due to the many negative stereotypes and accusations surrounding Black women, insecurities are something that...

Do Multiple Baby Daddies Determine Her Worth?

Multiple failed relationships are one thing and can be viewed as a negative experience, but what if a child was conceived in every one of those relationships?...

Flaws and All: Forgiving Yourself

When it comes to forgiveness some have an easier time with it than most and for various reasons. If you struggle with being merciful towards others, then...

Can I Be a Virgin and Still Be Sexy?

Let’s face it, there’s no way a virgin can be sexy, without having been sexual, right? Wrong. Sexy is in the eye of the beholder, not in the...

Alone and Happy: Am I Non-Committal?

Most women find happiness in gaining a life partner but for some of us, we can't get pass the infamous “talking” stage. We've all had our share of...

9 Ways to Be a Better Lover

“Be More Loving”, is a phrase that’s easier said than done. When we think of being more loving or being a better lover, we tend to think...

Real Talk: Why it Took 5 Years to Get Over My Ex

  Some people can fall madly in love, break up and then move on to the next one soon after. Celebrities are notorious for this type of behavior! JLo’s had her...

7 Women & Counting: How I Found Out I Wasn’t the Only One

They say three's a crowd...well, how about seven? Yes! That's exactly what happened to Chris. Her sexy new love turned out to be the Hugh Heffner of...

Tough Love is The Best Love: Lessons I Learned From Nanny

"Do not handicap your children by making their lives easy." - Robert A. Heinlein 1997 I was seven years old when I first experienced being told “no” without...

Hidden in Plain Sight: Molestation and How Denial Causes Unhealthy Relationships

There is a woman who lives an angry, isolated, uninhibited life. Each day she reruns in her mind disturbing events that happened during her childhood, which eventually...

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